Pain of Some ADDer’s

The pain of some clients with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder that have come to me:

  • I think I’m broken
  • I am so frustrated with the world and myself
  • I just can’t sit still
  • I am always late for things
  • My parents don’t understand me
  • I don’t have any friends
  • I don’t like or love myself
  • I am constantly interrupting people
  • I’m just not where I’m supposed to be
  • I don’t know how to study or what my teachers want from me
  • My feelings are always getting hurt
  • I can’t make decisions and it drives me crazy
  • I never think through my decisions I am way too impulsive
  • I always wait until the last possible minute to get my work started
  • I think I’m an alien
  • I can’t ever get to sleep; I’m always thinking or analyzing something
  • I keep losing interest in my partners
  • I hate waiting in line it just gets me so angry
  • I wonder if I’ll ever be able to keep a job, I am always getting fired
  • I am always so anxious- I always feel like I’ve forgotten to do something and everybody is judging me
  • I have problems getting along well with people of my own sex I much prefer the opposite sex
  • I know what people are thinking about me and they don’t like me
  • I stay up until all hours on the computer
  • I don’t know how to organize my work to get anything done
  • I procrastinate about everything I have thousands of unfinished projects
  • I say horrible things to myself that if I said to someone else they would never talk to me again
  • There are so many thoughts in my head I don’t know what to focus on
  • I think terrible things about people in my head
  • I’ll start a new routine and get excited and then I’ll loose interest and get so hard on myself
  • I can do something for somebody else but I can’t do the exact same thing for me
  • I get completely lost in the detail of things and then the time is up on the project and I haven’t moved forward
  • I drink wine at night so I can unwind
  • I smoke weed to calm me down and keep only one thought in my head
  • When I get angry it’s like “The Hulk” has taken over me
  • I don’t know how to start a conversation
  • I have so many hobbies that I don’t know where to store the stuff anymore
  • My children have so many activities it feels like I spend all my time running around picking them up and dinner is always too late
  • I wonder if my child will ever develop the skills to support himself when I’m gone.  I don’t know what will happen to him
  • I can’t follow conversations and I look like an idiot
  • My wife says I just don’t pay attention to her anymore
  • I am super sensitive to criticism and I get very defensive
  • If I’m not the best at something I feel like there is something wrong with me or I have failed
  • I’ll be great at work for a month and be terrible the next month I am never consistent
  • I’m always getting lost, I can’t find my way anywhere
  • If my wife tells me how to drive I just get so irritated with her
  • It’s like I’m always daydreaming
  • I snap at my husband when he tries to correct me
  • I open up too much to people and often regret it
  • I am so sensitive in relationships that I end up sabotaging them
  • I have a dream but something is holding me back from reaching it or maybe I just don’t deserve it

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